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BUT you could'v still make ANOTHER 1. She was right . and mean.

Yes Effie,i can always make another one,but not to replace the first one,like she meant.

There is this man 40 year old, in israel, who lost his 3 little children and wife in a terror atack on his house 7 years ago. Now he got merried since then and 3 days ago his new wife gave birth to threesome (?) three little babies at once yeah?
it was a natural made .. umm you know no doctors involved with the sperm and stuff. like...natural born smurf.

Well no 'replace' thing. i'm just saying

Edit, Giana, well... so the baby was fine then right?

Yes,she is fine.

GIANA wrote:The thing i can not forget is something that my father's wife said to my dentist,after my second birth.My baby girl was operated at 5 days and,she told my dentist,that if my girl wont survive,it should be ok,cause we are young and we can make another one.
It hurt me and i can stand to hear or talk to her since then.

That's not stupid or pointless. I wouldn't forgive that one either.

I forgive everybody on Kippur day, every year. I am not into religion but That flucking helps .
You never know where it 'came' from, the thing she said,
You never know if that was the exact thing that she said,
You never know why she said it ,
You never know if she meant that,
You never know if she regrate saying that.
You just don't know it ALL.
whoever you are wherever you are. Just let it go.
Forgive.

I know Chex,but this is the only thing that i seem not to be able to forget.
The stupid or pointless things my husband says,i remember only when i talk to him

It was very inconsiderate of her to say something like that. I bet she didn't mean it in a bad way but just didn't really think about the meaning of her words. Plus she probably never expected you to hear her words (which doesn't make it any better).
I'm glad your daughter is fine again.

Thanks Bella,she said that cause she never gave birth and dont know the feeling,but i still can forgive her...for now,may be someday i will.

A lot of people react like that. It was said to me when I had my miscarriages. They are just plain ignorant.

That's your own fault for not guiding him.

Seems like this got to the wrong section.

Clarence once told me that if i would have been an alarm clock, it would have been the loudest clock ever.

WHY WOULD HE SAY THAT, EFFIE?

Now i also remember the next thing he said...
"...Its just WHEN YOU TALK IN CAPS ...."